(Photo taken in Siena, Italy)
I realized as I wrote the title of this post ("a year ago today") that I talk like that quite a bit- both on my blog and in conversation. As you may know by now, I am quite sentimental, so I think about my memories all the time. I often find myself thinking things like: "Last week at this time I was..." or "Exactly one month ago we were..." or "A year ago today..."
All that to say...
Exactly one year ago today we left on our big European adventure. I can't believe that it has already been one year! I am so thankful that God allowed us to go on that trip when we did- we could never afford it now, nor would we even consider doing it with a toddler and a baby on the way! Sometimes it is still hard for me to believe that we actually did it- on our tiny little budget and with a six month old baby; it seemed crazy at the time and it seems crazy now! But God opened the door for us to go and it was such a blessing; not only do Erik and I love to travel together, but it was one of our dreams to go to Europe someday. Of course, we are dying to go back (alone as a couple and sometime with our kids when they are older), but at least we can say that we did it once...
(Photo taken in Siena, Italy- the view from our bedroom window)
When I posted the mini-book that I made about our time in Italy, a few people asked for some Europe travel tips. I definitely do not claim to be any kind of expert on European travel, or really travel in general, but here are a few things that we learned from our trip:
Rick Steve's travel books are the best. Seriously. If you are going to invest in any book(s) to carry with you constantly, there really are not better ones out there. We had several books with us besides his, but in the end we wish that we had not even bothered with them because his books included everything that we needed. We found almost all of our hostels, restaurant, and sightseeing recommendations from him and they were all great. We also watched some of his travel videos from the library before we went- super, super cheesy, but full of great tips.
If you do not have children yet, try as hard as you can to visit Europe before you do! It is possible to go with children (as we can testify!), but much more complicated and definitely less romantic!
If you already have children, you can still make it happen! I have never traveled with a child older than six months, so I cannot give you any advice there, but traveling with a baby was definitely doable, at least for us. And children under 2 years old fly free!
(Photo taken in Venice, Italy)
As far as babies go...
1. A BabyBjorn is your best friend -We used ours all day, every day. Forward facing for awake time, chest facing for naptime. We never used a stroller, and while at times we wished we had one, for the most part we were thankful to be without the extra baggage.
2. It is helpful to go before your baby starts solid foods. Audrey was still nursing pretty much exclusively when we went, so we never had to worry about finding food for her.
3. Realize that at least half of your baggage will be taken up by baby stuff- they go through clothes much quicker, you need stuff to keep them busy while traveling, etc. You can easily find necessity things like diapers and wipes in Europe, but it is much cheaper to bring as much as you can with you. We brought enough for about half of our trip and that worked well for us.
4. You have to be okay with taking a slower pace and lots of interruptions. Every night during our trip Erik and I made a rough itinerary for the next day, prioritizing the things that we wanted to see the most. Traveling with the BabyBjorn helped immensely, but we still had to stop quite a bit for feedings, changing, and playtimes. And then of course, there are things that happen with babies that you can never plan for- like getting sick, the infamous "blow-outs", etc.
5. Speaking of getting sick, make sure that you pack a basic baby first aid kit including a baby thermometer and infant pain-reliever. Those are not things that you are going to want to have to track down in the middle of the night in Europe. Audrey ended up getting a fever/cold halfway through our trip and I was so thankful to have packed those necessities.
(Photo taken in Venice, Italy)
6. Relaxing travel (i.e. plane, train, bus rides, etc.) is over. Traveling with a baby is all about keeping them quiet and happy. You probably will not get a chance to watch any in-flight movies or have any time to read fun magazines, let alone get much sleep! Have that expectation before you leave so that you are not disappointed. I used to love flying...
7. Take your baby's personality into consideration when planning your trip. Audrey has always been pretty easy-going and loves to be cuddled and carried, so she was an easy baby to travel with. If she had been a super active baby, however, I don't know if we would have even tried to go all the way to Europe with her; it would have just been too big of a challenge for us.
8. If possible, go before your baby starts to crawl. Audrey started crawling a week or so after we got back and I am so glad that she waited until then! Once they start crawling, babies do not like to be held as much. Not to mention the fact that I never would have let her crawl on the floors at some of the places where we stayed!
9. Try to get comfortable with co-sleeping before you go. Many of the places where we stayed did not provide or have the option of a crib or pack'n'play in our room, and if they did it was costly. And I would never attempt to bring our own portable crib; talk about excess baggage! Luckily for us, Audrey was very accustomed to co-sleeping, so we all slept very comfortably while traveling!
10. Take lots of pictures! I love looking at all of our fun pictures of Audrey in random places like the Colosseum, the Roman Aqueducts, on a bridge in Venice, and with her hands in a huge beer in Munich. And how cool for her to have them as she gets older and can appreciate them herself!
(Photo taken in Rome, Italy- the Aqueducts)
11. Try to spend at least two nights in each place you stay. It really helps to not have to set up "home" every single night. Most nights we were just so exhausted after a day of sight-seeing with a baby that it was nice to come home and just relax and not have to worry about unpacking and getting settled.
I am sure that I could come up with more baby travel tips, but let's move on...
(Photo taken in Rome, Italy- the Colosseum)
When planning the details of your trip, consider it in two ways:
1. As the trip of a lifetime. If you never get to go to Europe ever again, what are the most important things that you want to see or do? Do them. For us, going to Italy was a priority because Erik is passionate about church history and there is so much to see in Italy- Rome especially- relating to that. I have always been really interested in World War II and the Holocaust, so Germany was also an important stop for us.
2. As someplace you can always go back to. After you have done a little bit of traveling (especially internationally), you realize that travel is doable, it is not an impossible dream, you can make it happen. With that in mind, I think that it is better to make your time in Europe quality rather than quantity, meaning visit fewer places (those priority ones for you) and make your time really worthwhile, instead of hitting up 25 cities in a whirlwind six day tour. In our 16 days in Europe we visited six cities, spending at least one night in each city. We stayed the longest in Rome (five nights) because there was so much that we wanted to see there. Have the perspective that you will always be able to come back. Maybe you won't, but heck, we are already planning our next trip!
I cannot emphasize this one enough: PACK LIGHTLY! There are a million good books out there that go into this one in more detail, but just know that it is true. You really don't need a dozen pairs of pants or fifteen pairs of underwear. Believe it or not, they do have washing facilities in Europe- they are modern like that! We did laundry at least three times during our trip.
If you really want to go, be willing to make sacrifices in order to make it happen. Erik and I are not materialistic people- we don't care about having a fancy, expensive car or a nice, new house. We do, however, value the experience of travel- individually, as a couple, and for our children. Therefore, we are willing to sacrifice many material things in order to make our travel dreams happen. A year later, I definitely do not regret any of the sacrifices we made to make our Europe trip happen.

(Self portrait- Venice, Italy)
For more details and photos of our trip see:
Here for a rough itinerary of our entire trip.
Here, here, and here for Rome, Italy.
Here for Siena, Italy
And here for Florence and Venice, Italy and Munich, Germany.
P.S. For those of you who asked questions about specific places we visited, I will email you soon! I am a bit behind on my emails...